(Attempting) To Date While Autistic/Asexual: The Struggle Is Real
Back in 2021, my folks wanted Chinese food. Normallcall the order in.
Their phone wasnt working
so I had to put the order in and wait for it.
A guy wanted to talk to me.
I thought noting over it and he merely wanted to talk and nothing more.
I missed the cues that he liked me. Not just wanting to chat.
Most if not all autistic people dont pick up on non-verbal cues well.
Unless you tell me you like me, I will have no idea and assume you're just being friendly.
I realized how difficult it is to get into dating while autistic/asexual when he called me
in the middle of the night begging me to come to his house.
My mom told me when a guy calls you to his house in the middle of the night, its a booty call (he wants
sex) I didnt remember my mom telling me this. i found this guys behavior quite sus
when i refused to come to his house. It did not occur we wanted sex until he dumbed it
down. I'm asexual meaning i dont experience any sexual feelings. I am repulsed from
sex completely. Everyone is different. He barely knew me and wanted to hop in bed with me.
I think dating isnt worth it.
I could accidently lead them on from being unable to pick up on the cues. This makes dating
difficult because i have no interest in sex, finding someone mutal on the topic sounds close
to impossible. He also wanted kids, I don't.
This is just a description. You have to watch the video to understand.
since this happening, I won't give men i dont know my number
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